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Cody Roman
Dial was born during a warm spell in Fairbanks, February 22, 1987, thirty years ago today. He died when a
tropical hardwood toppled on his camp in Corcovado National Park, Costa Rica
during a solo, off-trail trek in July 2014.
Those of us
who knew him knew him as physical, intellectual, family and friend-centered. He
enjoyed packrafting whitewater, reading as research and recreation, Dungeons
and Dragons as immersive games at once fantastic and analytic. He liked
scuba-diving and skate-skiing, spicy food, and modern music. He introduced many
to Radiohead, the Kills, the Black Keys, kim-chee and exotic tropical fruits.
He wore no
tattoos, no piercings, no pretense, no nonsense. He was affectionate, strong,
authentic. Girls around the world swooned over his Harry Potter look: cheekbones,
hair, wire-rimmed glasses.
He read
voraciously, perceptively, too. Once, in a budget hotel room in Kota Kinabalu
on the island of Borneo he read two books over four days: The Malay
Archipelago by Alfred Russell Wallace and Stranger in the Forest by
Eric Hansen, regional classics separated by a century. He noted that “Hansen
describes Chinese men sitting at their doorstep in exactly the same way as
Wallace. In fact, there’s a couple places he uses the same imagery.”
Cody Roman was
a respectful son, a teasing brother, a loyal friend. A chef who excelled at
sauces without measure, he took pleasure in cooking for others. He baked pies
for potlucks and preferred Cherry Garcia to all other ice cream and bacon to
all other meat.
On a hike across
Umnak Island at six, he took to calling himself “Roman”. Over the next two
decades that’s what most of us called him.
Even as a
young boy, Cody Roman displayed an intelligent courage. He was careful and
cautious but adventurous, experienced and skilled. He was wise in risk, but not
averse to it.
At 11 in Costa
Rica he caught a nectar-eating bat near the Pacific and a strawberry poison
dart frog near the Atlantic. At 12 he swam beneath a waterfall in northern
Australia and grabbed a side-necked turtle, surfacing with an outstretched arm
clutching the reptile, excited and grinning.
He told some
his trek in Costa Rica was training to cross Panama’s notorious Darien
Gap.
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He was a
gifted story teller, both orally and in writing, telling stories less about him
than about those around him – what he saw, not what he felt. He liked to hug
and be hugged, to lift weights and climb rock un-roped, to swim and explore.
He once
articulated that something amusing made him smile, but something funny made him
laugh. Somehow Cody Roman was quiet but not shy, affectionate but not weak,
often caring but sometimes distant.
He could wield
a scowl with some precision, made sharper by muscular arms, but his heart
was big, too, his compassion a reward for love, his affection physical.
He had a habit
of scratching his head with both hands, of thinking before speaking. He shared
his treats. He didn’t complain. He pitched-in to help, rather than sit-back and
watch.
He’d rather
try and risk failing than not try at all.
During a road-trip
he sent home post cards and bourbon, limited-edition from Kentucky for his family
and friends to enjoy. We did, still do, savoring in that mash of corn, malt,
and rye warm memories that linger.
Conceived in
the Brooks Range, Cody Roman was an Alaskan, born and raised. He went to Chester
Valley Elementary, Steller Secondary, attended William and Mary on a
scholarship, with help from student loans and family. After graduating in
biology, he moved back to Anchorage, took a year off, then entered the graduate
program in environmental science at Alaska Pacific University.
He avoided
debt and saved, paying off his student loans by 23.
He worked summers
and holidays over a decade at the USGS Molecular Ecology Lab, starting at 16 in
the school district’s mentorship program. There he learned to extract DNA, run
PCRs, read LiCor gels. He looked forward to next gen sequencing and eDNA.
For his
master’s degree he sequenced the DNA of a thumb-sized isopod called Saduria
entomon. The genetic samples from around the Arctic he collected himself
from Teshekpuk Lake, Barrow, Kaktovik, Cook Inlet, or from other scientists in
Scandinavia, Bristol Bay, and the Chigniks.
By 25 he’d
published peer-reviewed journal articles on the DNA of snowy owls and the
biogeography of ice worms. He did field-work, too, catching shrews and voles in
Gates of the Arctic, Cape Krusenstern, Bering Land Bridge, Nogahabara Sand
Dunes, the North Slope, and on JBER.
He loved to
share what he knew or debate what he thought and eagerly, insatiably, sought to
know more about everything, but especially history, economics, and science.
He was
careful, knowledgeable, curious and creative. He thought critically in science
and spoke cynically of politics but helped with his hands when he could.
His future was
bright, promising, wide-open.
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He lived an amazing life!
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely piece on great young man Roman. A very smart, intelligent and worldly lad, no doubt about it. I still watch the vid of the Franklin river and smile every time. You should be very proud for so many reasons, but also remember what an excellent job you guys have done as parents. I'd like to thank you for being an inspiration to so many and although your loss is difficult, many of us will never forget Cody either. Thanks again for a wonderful insight.
ReplyDeleteCheers mate, Darren.
You are an inspiration and so was your son. Thanks for all the adventures and the stories that come along. I hope you keep on trekking and sharing.
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I will Andre. I am sorry that this blog has been less about that than about our son, but looking for him consumed a lot of my energy the last few years and made everything else seem trivial by comparison.
DeleteWhat a beautiful tribute to your amazing son. Although Cody Roman's time was tragically short, he certainly lived large; experienced so much of what the world has to offer; and left an unforgettable positive impact on so many.
ReplyDeleteRoman packed more life into his 27 years than most do in a life time. He entertained us with stories, spoke of his travels and was proud of his family. We looked forward to his visits, he and Brad were masters in the kitchen, intense in their game playing, engaging in conversation and he made us laugh. Roman left an impression on our lives and he will not be forgotten. So many memories. Your son was a good friend to our son. You raised him well.
ReplyDeleteThank you Wendy. Roman really liked Brad and respected his opinion. It was great that they got to spend time together at college, here in Alaska and at your place, I think, even for Christmas, if I recall. I only met Brad that once, but heard stories about him, of course.
DeleteHi, Roman! First of all, I'm really sorry for what happened to your son, family and my heart goes out to everyone affected by this tragedy. I just finished watching the documentary "Missing Dial", all 6 episodes in a row, and got really disappointed about how the situation was handled. They made a cheap reality show out of a horrible tragedy, and the way the investigators (specially Carson) did their job was absolutely outrageous. They left out crucial information, like the ones surrounding Cody's backpack. They just mentioned where the Embassy found it, and it was completely ignored later by the investigators, not connected to anything or anyone. I don't know who recommended Carson to you, but it was one of the biggest mistakes ever. The other sad thing was learning how the local authorities were just standing over the case without doing anything, leaded by the lies of Jose (Parrot Leg). With all that chaos created by that pathological liar, I hope you'll still be able to find closure and bring those responsible to justice. Good luck with everything! - Josh
ReplyDeleteDear Today i watched National Geographic, rather still watching your search mission. Couldnt hold my suspense and googled Cody's name and read this article. Very sad to know about death of your brave and young son.
ReplyDeleteMay God give you peace.
Nazar R Rathore
Islamabad, Pakistan
My heart aches for you and your family. Thanks for posting this beautiful eulogy. Your family has served as an inspiration for my own.
ReplyDeleteThanks Chris. I didn't want to be an inspiration. Just a good dad.
DeleteAnd it looks like you were, and are still.
DeleteThis was a beautiful tribute to your son. I am a father of three sons. I can not imagine the pain and loss you experience. Thank you for sharing his story, he was amazing.
ReplyDeleteHe was also very fortunate and blessed to have a father, a family, who taught him so much. Having my first son at the ripe old age of fifty-something gives me extra anxious pause. He's now 3.6 years old and I can't even think to imagine what my life would be without him. My heart truly grieves for your loss. Roman, we met a number of years ago and your stories are forever etched in my memory and inspired me to take my nephew, 12 years old at the time on a trek to Alaska. I never would have experienced loading our mountain bikes on the pulley thingy over the river and experiencing McCarthy and the Kennecott copper mines, and all the other wonders that our Alaska trip gave us. What an awesome life you gave your son! He has touched many lives as have you. Thank you for sharing your story. I like to say my main goal in life is to put and keep a smile on my wife's and son's face every day. I'm sure you did that and more. -Peter Mullen
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